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Let's talk about disabled parking permits

As someone who hasn't always been disabled, I know the frustrating feeling of running late to an important meeting, only to find that there is no parking in sight aside from the big, beautiful, empty disabled parking spaces directly in front of the entrance of the building you're going to…

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The Misadventures of a fake leg named Kiki

learned to take things in stride and laugh at myself pretty quickly after my amputation because the alternative was far less fun. Something else I learned is to expect lots of unexpected chaos and pack accordingly…

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Florida and the Amputee

With the start of Summer fast approaching, temperatures in central Florida are already reaching the mid-nineties, paired with the level of humidity that slaps you across the face like a steamy middle finger. As an amputee, I am not exactly a summer girlie…

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Pain is a trigger

I think it's a fair assumption to say that most people hate the dentist, no matter how many legs they have. I've had my leg cut off, and I'm still scared of the dentist; there I said it. I won't put off seeing my oncologist, but I will delay a dental appointment to the point where a slightly cracked tooth becomes a fully cracked and now infected tooth…

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It’s April again-LLAM

It's April again. Flowers are blooming all over. The Florida Gators won the NCAA Championship, and it's limb loss/ difference awareness month. Yay! …

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Go outside and touch some grass

So when I heard someone say, "Get outside and touch some grass," I had to stop and think when the last time I did that was…

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It’s been five years. Do I still need my Doctor?

Today was scan day. After the typical chest and leg X-ray, I rode Passenger Princess to the cancer center for my results. With my iced latte in hand, I walked in as calm as one can be while entering a traumatic space from their past…

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Inconvinience

Now that I'm five years into limb loss, I have a pretty good idea of how to get around things that usually require two real legs. There isn't always a super easy solution to whatever stands between you and your activity of choice, but there is usually a way to make it happen. Sometimes, my bestie needs to carry me on her back. Other times, I need to hop to my destination on my one real leg and leave the fake one behind…

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Reminder to say it

When someone we cherish passes away, we often run through our mind wondering if we told them what they meant to us. Did we just assume they knew? Were we kind enough and open enough with our affection, and did we truly accept them despite whatever differences we may have had? …

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Switch it up

If you're the routine type, this message is for you...

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RIP TikTok

Well, it finally happened. While I was doom-scrolling last night at exactly 10:30 pm, TikTok went dark…

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New Year, same imperfectly awesome me

Hello 2025. Welcome to the Sh*t show. No, I didn't make any New Year's resolutions, and if you ask me, it's 2025 who needs to make some resolutions to not be like 2020-2024…

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